Toddler Throwing Practice with Play Dough Basketball

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Does your child like to throw things? I know my toddler does. Well, challenge them to a game of play dough basketball!

I tried this yesterday after making a fresh batch of orange scented play dough using this basic recipe (and I used 2 packets of orange Kool Aid as both the color and scent, rather than liquid food coloring).

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Play dough basketball was a fun way to allow my little guy to throw things without being destructive or getting into trouble!

Throwing is an important skill for the overall development of motor, visual, and coordination skills. It begins around 13 months with “flinging” forward, then progresses to throwing under or overhand around 15-18 months, then develops into throwing toward and eventually into a target about three feet away by the time they are 16-20 months old.

But encouraging kids to throw things can be dangerous, especially once they realize they can throw anything they can get their little hands on!

Play dough basketball is a safe(r) and easily accessible way to encourage throwing toward a target and it’s great because you can make the ball any size you want. If you cook a batch of homemade play dough, you’ll have about a pound or more of play dough to work with.

Because the play dough has some weight to it — as opposed to soft foam balls — it provides more sensory feedback to your kiddo’s muscles and joints, which helps them get a better feel for how much force they must use in order to throw the ball where they want it to go. This is especially true if they play with a big rolled-up piece of play dough that requires two hands just like a basketball.

Once all the play dough is in the target (such as a bucket), they can engage in some “heavy work” by carrying the bucket to a different part of the room or dumping out all the play dough balls to get ready for Round Two. This is especially helpful for kids who really seek out this type of heavy muscle input in order to keep their bodies calm.

After your game of play dough basketball is finished, sit down and engage in some fun fine motor play (10 great ideas here) or simply seal up the dough in an airtight container and save it for later.

Happy throwing!

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Mama OT’s Product of the Month – May 2013

This month Mama OT is excited to feature the book From Rattles to Writing: A Parent’s Guide to Hand Skills as the product of the month!

From Rattles to Writing is written by Barbara Smith, a highly experienced occupational therapist who loves to educate and empower others. In addition to being an OT and an author, Barbara also blogs about how to make your own therapy supplies at http://recyclingot.blogspot.com.

Mama OT will be publishing a review of this book soon, so be on the lookout for my thoughts about this exciting new resource for parents of children ages birth to five!

*This post contains Amazon affiliate links.

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Handwriting mastery begins before the introduction of a pencil!

Please welcome Mama OT’s newest guest blogger, Katherine Collmer! Katherine is an occupational therapist and blogger who is passionate and knowledgeable about everything handwriting. She is here today to talk about the important yet often overlooked foundations of handwriting that are learned through play from the day a child is born. These foundations set children up for later handwriting success. Read on to learn more!

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Hello, everyone! I am thrilled to be a guest blogger on Christie’s awesome site, Mama OT! It is an honor to have been included among the impressive authors and offerings you can find here.

Let me start by asking the question, “Why do we care about handwriting?”

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The teaching of handwriting has been the topic of many blogs, conversations, educational debates and professional forums. Why bother? Aren’t the “hard” subjects like math and the sciences, as well as the foundational ones like reading and spelling, more worthy of a teacher’s time? Yes, these subjects certainly do warrant a place of priority in our children’s education. And, as we all know, reading is the basic skill upon which all others are built. It is at the heart of education.

However, it is important to note that handwriting and reading utilize the same skills for mastery, one of which is letter recognition. Visual memory and perception are the underlying skills required for letter recognition. The ability to automatically recall the formation of letters from memory without conscious thought allows the writer to copy and create content. But comprehension — of what we both read and write — cannot occur without an efficient working memory. Working memory is what we use to store information while we transfer it to paper or speech, or as we read a story. Working memory has limitations, however, that can get in the way when it comes to handwriting. Since it can only hold about 7 pieces of information (letters or words) for about 10 seconds or so at a time, a child can lose what he’s stored if he needs to spend extra time sounding out letters or digging deep to remember what they look like.

In that light, you might be interested to hear that studies have shown that children who are doing well with handwriting skills and letter recognition in pre-kindergarten achieve B averages in 2nd grade math and reading – while those children who did not perform well, attained C averages in 2nd grade. I will leave you with that food for thought as we journey through the developmental steps that lead to the mastery of handwriting.

From infancy forward, as children progress through the developmental stages, they are learning about parts and how they can manipulate them to make a whole. The letters of the alphabet are simply parts that make a whole. They are not learned as a single entity but as pieces that connect together to make them a letter. Babies and toddlers use their vision to guide their hands in the manipulation of shapes and forms, mentally sorting and labeling them. Letters are simply shapes and forms. As a child perceives the concepts of “separate” and “whole,” and as she experiments with shapes and sizes, she is developing her working memory skills. She collects information, stores it in her brain, and brings it back into her working memory once again as she repeatedly tries her hand at pulling things in and out, apart and together. As a child discovers the capabilities of her arms, hands and fingers, as well as the larger muscles of her body, she is getting ready for handwriting. And she does this all through PLAY!

PLAY PROVIDES THE FOUR BASIC COMPONENTS FOR THE MASTERY OF HANDWRITING:  Movement, Sensory, Vision, and Cognition. Although vision is actually one of our senses, I set it apart because it is the piece that works to make sense of the information that is gathered by all of our other senses. With that said, it is difficult to separate these four elements from each other since they are so intertwined. So, we will discuss them as pieces that fit together to make a “whole!”

baby girl in crib with hand to face1. Movement is a key component of a child’s learning. From the moment of birth, movement begins the child’s journey through her developmental stages. It connects the baby to the world around her. Playing with her arms and legs introduces her to bilateral integration, helping her to discover that she has two sides and that they can work alone or together. Babies are stimulated by light and sound, turning their heads toward you when you talk or at a mobile as it plays music. Tummy time offers opportunities to work on their visual skills as they push up and look out and around the room. Rolling over and crawling help them to experiment with their bodies and bilateral coordination.

Movement challenges children to “know where their body is”. Body awareness is simply our body map. It tells us where our head is, our arms are, and if we are vertical or horizontal. We can identify our position in space even if our eyes are closed. At the very epicenter of movement is the brain, activating neurons that link itself to the body parts that we want to move. As we move, the brain is gathering, analyzing, adapting and storing information. And all of this information is what we use to develop an accurate body map. And body awareness is one of the key facets in efficient handwriting skills!

Infant Playing2. Sensory processing that is accurate is also developed through movement activities. As I continue to emphasize the vital role that body awareness plays in a child’s success with handwriting (and just about every other educational endeavor), it is important to recognize the importance of accurate sensory processing. The information we receive through our ears, eyes, skin, joints, and muscles provides us with the ability to regulate our movements, recognize pressure and position our bodies.

Babies and toddlers most often seek out movement. As they turn their heads, roll over, push up and eventually pull themselves onto their feet, they are collecting information from all of their senses. They organize it and analyze it in order to use it again to produce and modify their movement strategies. The simple act of feeding – moving the mouth, tongue, and lips – facilitates the essential skill of feeding by offering opportunities to manipulate and experiment with their mouths. Lots of movement provides lots of opportunities to experience sensory input!

Girl Playing With Building Blocks3. Vision has been described as our most far-reaching sense. All of the collecting, organizing, analyzing, and storing a child performs during her movement adventures are done via her visual system. Although we think of our vision as simply being our eyesight, it is actually a much more complex system

Vision is a movement pattern (there’s that word again!). It is learned, the same as walking is learned, while we develop our motor skills. It helps us to make sense of those things that we cannot understand with our other senses (such as depth, distance, some of the balance piece and perceptions). It provides the foundation of information from which we can see the world as a whole, allowing us to organize and manipulate space.

As a child develops her motor skills, she begins to understand concepts such as up, down, behind, over and under. She figures out how things connect and go together. Visual processing skills provide insight into perspective, likenesses and differences, spatial relationships and how to use the both sides of our body – alone or together – as we develop our fine and gross motor coordination.

Healthy Snack4. Cognition by definition is the “mental action or process of acquiring knowledge and understanding through thought, experience and the senses”. Cognition is the culmination of putting movement, the senses, and vision to work. It is the process by which we initiate, produce, modify and reproduce our movements. Once again, an accurate body map plays a key role in the development of accurate movement patterns. From sucking on a bottle to shaking a rattle to scribbling with a crayon, the ability to know where our body parts are and how they work give the brain accurate information from which to make decisions. It can determine the amount of pressure to put on a pencil, the direction in which to draw a letter and the space that is needed between words. Movement makes it happen.

A child’s journey through the stages that develop movement patterns, sensory processing skills, vision skills, and cognitive skills introduces her to opportunities to develop fine motor grasping patterns, trunk control, balance skills, and visual-motor proficiency. As she plays — from infancy through kindergarten — she is experimenting with holding a rattle, a cube, a ball, a crayon, and a pencil. She is making her mark on chalkboards, papers, in shaving cream and, most likely, on the walls! She is finding ways to communicate with us through handwriting…and in the process she is developing the cognitive skills she will need to learn her letters and read and write.

I hope that I have piqued your interest in handwriting mastery and the thrill of learning it through play! Thank you for reading and I look forward to your comments and feedback!

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Key West 2010 Driving the CorvetteKatherine Collmer, M.Ed., OTR/L, is a pediatric occupational therapist who is hopelessly in love with handwriting! She owns and operates a small clinic that specializes in just that, where she brings fun, movement, and play into the mix. She currently lives on Cape Cod, in Sandwich, MA, USA, and is kooky when it comes to walking her Welsh Pembroke Corgi, Ron, along the beach. Of course, she is even kookier when it comes to her husband, John, as they travel across the US looking for adventure! She enjoys reading mystery novels (especially the British ones) and writing her long-winded blogs. Cross-stitch is high on her list of relaxing activities, right before playing games on her iPad!

Find out more about Katherine and her passion for handwriting at www.handwritingwithkatherine.com.

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How to Make Homemade Instant Snow

Someone recently told me you can make instant snow by cutting open a disposable diaper and pouring water on it til it turns into a gelatinous, moldable sensory play tool.

What?!

Diaper Snow Cover with TextAs an OT who is always looking for new sensory play ideas, I decided I HAD to try this for myself. Here’s how I did it:

1. Cut open the diaper so you can extract the absorbent pad in the middle. Be delicate with the pad. It’s super fragile and little particles will start to fall off when you move it around.
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2. Place the absorbent pad in a container (such as a plastic toy bin, baking sheet, or large mixing bowl) and slowly add water, poking and prodding the pad as you go to help break it apart. I had to use approximately four cups of water to turn a Size 3 Huggies pad into the appropriate consistency. If you don’t have a long container you could always cut or tear the pad into smaller pieces.IMG_5457 textIMG_5458 text

3. That’s it! Ridiculously simple. 

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Encourage sensory exploration, motor planning, and fine motor skills by molding the snow into snowballs or creating sculptures such as snowmen or animals.  IMG_5464 textPractice pre-writing skills by forming shapes, letters, and numbers in the snow. Kids can use their index fingers or can even use a tool such as the non-brush end of a thin paintbrush in order to practice pencil grasp as well.

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And for those little ones who are either reluctant to touch the slushy stuff or who need to practice their scooping skills, give them a tool (learn more here).

IMG_5470 textMake sure your little explorer doesn’t try to eat the fake snow. Though the substance is non-toxic, it doesn’t mean it should be ingested. Your snow will be as cold as the water you make it with. If you want it colder, put it in the fridge or freezer. If you want it slushier, add more water. Throw in a little salt if you (or your child) accidentally made it too slushy; this will help “dry” it out a bit. Create different colors of snow by mixing in some food coloring or Kool-Aid powder.

If you don’t have diapers in your house and don’t want to go out and buy a whole pack, you can purchase name-brand instant snow in many stores or online (click here).

Happy snow play!

*This post contains an affiliate link. 

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How to Sneak Fine Motor Skills into Gross Motor Play

Welcome to One Thing Thursday, where we share one thing you can do to boost your child’s development!

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Parents and teachers often ask me how they can incorporate more fine motor practice into their child’s or student’s day.

Well, try this one thing:
Sneak fine motor practice into their gross motor play!

Many kiddos I work with struggle to sit still, focus, or follow adult-directed tasks, and their fine motor development suffers as a result. That’s why they’re getting OT! Asking them to sit at a table and transfer color-coded clothespins from one paper plate to another for a few minutes? Forget about it! Not gonna work for these movers and wigglers.

When many of my kiddos participate in a gross motor obstacle course at the beginning of their session, I usually make sure to include a fine motor station. This allows me to “chunk” the fine motor activity into smaller pieces in order to facilitate things such as improved attention to task, decreased frustration, and improved overall success with the activity. Plus the other gross motor stuff often serves as a positive reinforcer for them so they know that as soon as they finish their fine motor station (as much as they may hate it), they’ll be able to go do all that fun stuff again! Don’t get me wrong — the ultimate goal is to improve their attention and skill in the fine motor department and eventually get them comfortable and functional working at tabletop. But we’ve gotta meet kids where they’re at if we want to help them move forward. And, hey, we want it to be FUN!!

Don’t forget that fine motor development requires a stable “base”, which means kids need a strong set of abs, back/side muscles, neck muscles, and shoulders to support the development of refined skills in the hands and fingers. So, really, kids are working on the foundations of fine motor development even when they engage in gross motor play. It’s a win-win!

Below is one example of a fine motor/gross motor obstacle course several of my preschool students recently completed during individual school-based sessions.

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The obstacle course included the following stations:
1. Climb up the tall side of the blue blocks
Fine Motor Relation: Upper body/core strength; bonus of working on motor planning for those who struggle with it
2. Swing on trapeze and kick down foam blocks
Fine Motor Relation: Hand, forearm, and shoulder strength to hang; core strength to lift legs and kick; bonus of working on attention, timing, and providing vestibular input while swinging
3. Jump on trampoline
Fine Motor Relation: Core strength; neck strength; shoulder and wrist stability if holding therapist’s hands and bearing weight down into them while jumping; bonus of providing proprioceptive and vestibular input to calm and focus the mover or alert the sluggish child
4. Crawl through tunnel
Fine Motor Relation: Shoulder and wrist stability; neck strength; bonus of working on motor planning and bilateral coordination for those who struggle with it
5. Sit on hippity hop ball while using tongs or kiddie chopsticks to place all poms of one color into bucket (Find 50 ways to play with tongs by clicking here, and one tip for facilitating good grasp on tongs here.)
Fine Motor Relation: Hand and finger strengthening; practicing grasp pattern for crayon, pencil, or scissors; core stability while sitting on ball; bonus of providing vestibular input if bouncing and challenging visual scanning and discrimination to find desired color
6. Re-set foam blocks for trapeze by setting them up so they are lined up evenly spaced next to each other and “sit” just above the little white line (just like letters when they are written on paper)
Fine Motor Relation: Upper body strength to lift blocks; bonus of working on motor planning to raise them up and visual perception to accurately place them next to each other and on the line
*Repeat obstacle course until all colors of poms have been placed in the bucket while using the tongs. This means they get to go around the obstacle course four or five times, depending on how many colors of poms are included. It also provides a natural ending point for the obstacle course and eases the transition for many students because they know it’s “all done” when there are no more poms left. Minimizing tantrums during transitions is always good!

Don’t you wish you got to do this when you were in preschool?!

OC 4OC 2 OC 3Some other good fine motor or pre-writing activities to incorporate into obstacle courses for young ones include lacing beads, pushing puff balls into small holes, placing toothpicks into the small holes of a spice container, operating shape sorters or puzzles with pegs, assembling Mr. Potato Head, or building Mat Man one body part at a time as they go around (see short video of kids building Mat Man by clicking here).

So the next time you think there’s no way you can possibly get your kiddo to work on fine motor skills, or you think you just don’t have time for it, remember this! Squeeze fine motor practice into their gross motor play and you might just be surprised at how effective it is. Let your child be your guide when it comes to the appropriate level of fine motor challenge. Have fun!

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Toddler Fine Motor Skills: Pipe Cleaner Colander {Photo Friday}

Welcome to Photo Friday, a place where I share photos of therapeutic tools and ideas that can help boost your child’s development. Please give me feedback on my ideas — I love hearing how they go over with other kids!

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Looking for a way to work on fine motor skills and hand-eye coordination with your toddler? Or, here’s a better question…looking for a way to keep your toddler busy? Give them a colander and some pipe cleaners (both of which I found at the Dollar Tree), demo how to use it if needed, and let them go to town. You might be amazed at just how entertained they will be.

This activity is an ideal challenge for the child who is able to grasp objects with their whole hand or with thumb and index finger, but isn’t quite ready for more refined fine motor activities such as lacing beads on a string. As with many activities, taking the pipe cleaners out is easier than putting them back in, so it provides a natural grading of challenge for kids at a variety of skill levels. However, you might be surprised at how interested your little one may be at trying to place them back in the holes after they have been quickly ripped out.

Putting the pipe cleaners in encourages precise hand movements and higher level hand-eye coordination than lower level play skills such as stacking two blocks or placing pegs in a board. Encourage your child to hold the pipe cleaner with their fingers pointing toward the tip (toddlers aren’t expected to have a mature tripod grasp like the way adults hold a pencil at this point), as opposed to grasping with their fist and turning their arm in so the thumb-side of their hand is facing down.

Depending on your child’s age and skill level, you can add all sorts of educational challenges to this activity by involving your child in identification of colors, sorting and matching colors or sizes, and more. Try this activity out, save it for a rainy day, and prepare to (hopefully) be amazed by your toddler’s newfound fine motor skills!

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Toddler Nature Walk

This morning my little walker and I needed to get out of the house and grab some fresh air on this crisp, clear day. So we grabbed the bucket that goes with his shape sorter (find here) and headed out for a 20-minute walk around our complex to go collect some autumn leaves.

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toddlerOur little nature walk made it easy to practice a host of toddler-level developmental skills. We worked on safety awareness and following directions as he and I engaged in the age-old power struggle of holding Mama’s hand while walking across the parking lot. I pointed out leaves on the ground while he followed my gaze and went to pick them up (referred to as “joint attention“). And he practiced his fairly new skill of squatting to grab items from the ground and then standing back up without losing his balance.

toddlerYou can go on a nature walk with an older toddler and challenge them to only look for one type of object (like leaves), or you could challenge them even further by encouraging them to find two or more types of objects on your walk (leaves, flower petals, pine needles) and then place them in separate bags or buckets based on category. It’s a fun and natural way to introduce the concepts of matching, sorting, and same/different while helping them expand their vocabulary and getting a bit of fresh air and exercise in the process!

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Fine Motor Skills for Toddlers: Scarf in a Box

Toddlers are all sorts of curious, aren’t they? Opening cupboards, pulling books off of shelves, and digging through piles of freshly sorted laundry. Ahhh!

Enter: Scarf in a Box.

It’s not rocket science. And it’s not super original. But it is great for A) keeping busy little hands occupied and B) working on fine motor skills!

Pulling a scarf out of a wipes container is a great introduction to bilateral coordination (coordinating the use of two hands) and working on hand dominance (something that typically develops in the toddler to preschool years). While one hand pulls the scarf out of the opening, the other “helper” hand must push against the container and generate enough force to be able to keep it in place. If the helper hand doesn’t do its job, then it becomes much harder to get the scarf out of the box…of course, my little one figured out how to bypass this rule by using his little monkey feet to keep the box in place!

For this activity, all you need is a thin scarf and an empty container of baby wipes. I like the Huggies container because it has the rubbery opening to provide some resistance on the scarf.

You can teach your toddler to isolate the index finger to press the button and make the top pop open.

Ready. Set. Pull!

Time for a refill. Let’s put it in!

In addition to providing opportunities for practicing fine motor skills, the scarf box has also provided an incredibly natural, easy way for us to work on vocabulary and action words such as open/close, in/out, and pull. Plus, it’s been good practice for following one-step directions (such as, “Put it in!”).

This has become one of my 15-month-old’s favorite go-to activities in the past month. In fact, just the other day I found him sitting in his room — fussing and whining — because he had opened his own wipes container and pulled out at least 30 baby wipes in an attempt to find the “end” of them like he does with the scarf, to no avail. He was left surrounded by two huge piles of wipes and, well, it was hilarious.

Give this a try and see what your little one thinks of it!

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Why Kids Should Play with Baby Dolls (YES, even BOYS!)

This post has been written in collaboration with pediatric speech-language pathologist Katie Yeh (PlayingWithWords365) and clinical psychologist Laura Hutchison (PlayDrMom). Thank you for your wonderful contribution, ladies! 

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The baby doll is such a fantastic toy that we hope ALL children (Yes, even BOYS!) will have the opportunity to own and play with during the toddler years. This is because baby dolls are packed with potential for teaching children about themselves and the world around them. Let’s take a look!

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Cognitive, Fine Motor, & Self-Help Skills

Baby dolls offer kids lots of opportunities for developing their cognitive, fine motor, and self-help skills. Kids often find it easier to practice these skills on someone (or something) else before they can apply them to themselves. And because boys often develop some of their fine motor and self-dressing skills later than girls, it’s important for them to be exposed to more opportunities for practice. For example:

  • Dramatizing using a doll: Around two to three years old, children typically begin to act as if their doll can see and interact with them. They may link several actions with the doll in sequence such as feeding the doll, bathing the doll, and then putting the doll to bed. This sort of pretend play is a hugely important part of their cognitive development.
  • Removing clothes: Though some clothing items are easier to remove than others (like those baby socks that never stay on their little feet!), kids often benefit from trying it out on a doll before doing so for themselves. Taking clothing off is usually mastered before putting it on and includes removing items such as hat, socks (pulling from the top rather than pulling on the toes), shoes, shirt, using a pincer grasp to unzip, pulling down pants, and unbuttoning large buttons.
  • Putting on clothes: Getting clothes on can be tough and is typically MUCH easier when first practiced on a doll. Some common clothing items kids can practice on dolls and themselves include placing a hat on their head, zipping with some assistance, putting shoes on, pulling pants up, putting on a shirt, and buttoning large buttons.
  • Using both hands in midline: This skill is expected to emerge around a year and a half and tends to coincide with the development of skills such as zipping/unzipping or holding the doll while pretending to feed it.
  • Feeding: As children’s pretend play skills develop, so do their self-feeding skills! Playing with a baby doll gives them the opportunity to practice appropriately holding and using feeding items such as spoons, bottles, cups, forks, bowls, etc.
  • Bathing: Kids can practice giving their doll a bath (with pretend water if the doll is not allowed to get wet)! This is great for practicing sequencing skills (first fill up the tub, then put on shampoo, then rinse hair, etc.). I have also used dolls in therapy to help kids move past their fear of bathing by having them help me give the doll a pretend bath using all the necessary supplies (so they get used to the sensory experience from the water, shampoo, etc. and can have more control over the experience). We talk about the supplies needed and the steps taken during bath time, and then they can narrate the steps and comfort the doll during “bath time” while playing out a simple or elaborate pretend narrative. (A plastic Potato Head also works great for this experience.) Parents have been so proud when their child eventually agrees to get in the bath after practicing with the doll for weeks on end!
  • Grooming & Hygiene: Dolls provide the perfect opportunity for practicing grooming and hygiene skills such as brushing hair, brushing teeth, and washing hands.
  • Potty training: While I don’t have a lot of experience on this front (yet!), a child with an active imagination can really benefit from using a doll to help with potty training. While skills such as indicating discomfort over soiled pants and sitting on a potty chair with assistance are skills a child must develop in him or herself, they can be played out on the doll either by the caregiver or the child him/herself. For example: “Uh oh! Baby has a wet diaper! He feels yucky”, or “Okay, Baby, time to sit on the potty!”

Speech-Language Skills

The baby doll is a toy that can really help open up and expand a child’s pretend play. Children learn a lot of language through their play and play offers them opportunities to use and practice their speech and language skills. Let’s look at just some of the language concepts that a baby doll can help teach and support:

  • Body Parts: Dolls are FANTASTIC for teaching various body parts: eyes, nose, mouth, ears, hands, fingers, tummy, feet, toes, knees, elbows, etc. Yes, you can teach these without a baby doll but providing another opportunity to practice labeling this vocabulary helps to generalize the vocabulary to other people. It helps to teach children that “nose” not only refers to the thing on their own face but to all faces.
  • Clothing Labels: Using the doll and its clothes, you can teach the names of clothing items like shirts, pants, shoes, socks, jammies, etc. Putting on and taking off the clothes also works on fine motor skills!
  • Basic Concepts: Use baby with other baby toys (bed, blankets) to teach some basic concepts like: prepositions (baby in the bed, baby under the blanket), colors, and size concepts (using different sized dolls).
  • Verbs/Feelings: Use the baby with some other baby toys (bed, bottle, clothes) to teach verbs/feelings/etc. like: eat, drink, sleep, sit, stand, hungry, sleepy, thirsty, and more. For example: “Is the baby hungry? We should give him something to eat!”
  • Answering “wh” questions: You can ask your child an array of questions to work on his understanding of these words while he plays. “Where is baby?” “Where is baby’s nose/fingers/belly button?” “What does the baby want to eat?” “Why is the baby crying?”
  • Social/pragmatic skills: Baby dolls can be a great tool to use to help teach appropriate social/pragmatic skills. Children can take turns playing with different dolls, and they can practice using language to ask questions about the dolls and what they are doing.

Social-Emotional Skills

Children use play to understand their world. Doll play helps children:

  • practice nurturing and caring (socio-emotional)
  • re-enact interactions with their own caregivers, family, and friends (cognitive reframing)
  • prepare for a sibling (rehearsal)

Regardless of a child’s gender, these skills are all valuable life lessons. In carrying, holding, feeding, and rocking a baby doll, children are practicing being loving to others. They may be modeling how they remember being taken care of as a baby, or how they see adults in their world caring for children. Just as children copy parents talking on the phone, working in the kitchen, vacuuming, etc., doll play is no different. It is children’s way to understand and begin to make the world their own by practicing these everyday events.

Doll play is also a way for children to re-enact things that have happened in their lives. Doing so allows them to increase their understanding of the events. They can also take on the opposite role, which allows them to see things from another’s perspective (SUCH an important skill to acquire!). Many times children will enjoy taking on the adult role in order for them to feel a sense of control and power. This makes complete sense because children have very little control over their world (for some necessary and good reasons). Giving a child the chance to have some power and control in play allows them to give it a try in a safe way.

Playing with baby dolls is also a wonderful way for young children to prepare for the birth of a sibling. Parents can model ways to appropriately touch and care for an infant which can give the sib-to-be a taste of what they can expect. Also, once the baby arrives, the new big-sib can care for their own baby doll right alongside mom and dad. This can be particularly helpful since it is quite normal (for obvious reasons) for the older sibling to not get as much attention once the baby arrives. Being able to have their own activity – but still feel connected to the parent(s) and family – can help a child ease into having an additional member in the family.

Some children will prefer to play out these same scenarios with other stuffed toys or miniatures because they feel better connected to them or they need the play to be more removed (less real to the actual situation) than playing with baby dolls. I’m mentioning this because I don’t want parents/caregivers to think that just because a child doesn’t play with baby dolls they can’t learn and practice these skills. But I do believe that baby dolls offer children something unique that other toys just can’t do.

Check out this inspiring post about one mom’s quest to teach her three young boys how to someday care for a baby by modeling it with their dolls. Seriously, this post is amazing…you may need tissues.

We hope you have enjoyed our take on how you can use baby dolls to promote kids’ development! How have your kids benefited from playing with dolls? We’d love to hear your story!

About the Authors:

Christie is a mama to one precious kiddo (15 months) and an occupational therapist to many. Her blog, Mama OT, is a place where she shares helpful tibdbits learned from life as both a mom and a pediatric OT. Follow her on FacebookPinterest, and Twitter for more tips on how to promote your child’s development and help them have fun along the way!

Katie is a a mom to two little ones (E, almost 4, & Ev, 21 months) and a licensed, credentialed pediatric speech-language pathologist (when she finds the time). She blogs at Playing With Words 365, sharing information about speech & language development, intervention strategies, therapy ideas & tips, and even a little about her family and their life too. Follow along on Facebook or Pinterest for more speech-language ideas and tips.

Laura is a mother of two and a clinical psychologist specializing in children and play therapy. Her blog, PlayDrMom, is dedicated to promoting the importance of play and strengthening relationships with children. Follow her on Pinterest and Facebook for even more tips on parenting and playing.


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10 Holiday Gift Ideas for Toddlers

Looking for some holiday gift ideas for toddlers? One- to three-year-olds can be tricky to shop for because they vary so much in their interests and abilities (as they should!). Below is a list of ten holiday gift ideas for toddlers from 12-36 months. There are so many great toys out there, so use this list as a starting point for your shopping and brainstorming. And head over to this post to find some more ideas about the types of toys that are perfect for toddlers.

Be sure to check out my other posts with gift ideas for babies and preschoolers!

gift ideas for toddlers

1. Baby doll- Encourages social-emotional and language development for both boys and girls.

2. Shape sorter- Plasticwoodenelectronicround, or bucket style.

3. Mega Bloks- Stacking and building for boys or girls.

4. Puzzles with knobs- Lots of great choices for little hands while learning about basic shapesanimalsvehicles, or foods.

5. Nesting blocksGreat for developing language, hand-eye skills, understanding of size, and more.

6. Books- Rhyme and repetitionlift-the-flaptouch-and-feelcompare/contrast, and press-a-sound.

7. Ride-on toys- Start out by pushing, then graduate to riding. My sensory-seeking little one has thoroughly enjoyed his longs walks with “Doggie” as he pushes him up & down and up & down the hallway until his muscles are worked and ready for bed.

8. Snap-lock beads- Exercise those hands and teach them to work together.

9. Potato Head- Expand language skills, learn about body parts, position in space, and how to work two hands together with Potato Heads ranging from classic to updated to extensive to themed (Toy Story Mr. and Mrs., Darth Tater, Dark Knight, Spudbob Squarepants, Spider-Man Spud) and so many more.

10. Stack and Sort boardGreat for developing language, sorting skills, and an understanding of size, color, shape, and number.

*Some of the links to recommended products are affiliate links. That means if you click them and buy the product not only will you get an excellent product your child will love, but a percentage of your purchase will go to help Mama OT pay off her grad school loans!

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