Tips for Raising Smart Kids

Someone shared an interesting infographic with me recently about how to raise smart kids. I wanted to post it here not because I believe there is a “formula” for turning kids into geniuses, but because I think it’s a good conversation starter.

As an occupational therapist, I like that it addresses the fact that there are certain childhood occupations (i.e., meaningful activities that kids engage in) that can enhance brain function and learning. Conversely, it also demonstrates how other childhood occupations can negatively impact development.

But the most interesting fact presented in this graphic is the final one.

Check it out:

Genius Infographic

Isn’t that interesting? I know from experience that this is true — many kids I’ve known who are smart and “know it” do not possess the same work ethic or adaptive skills (such as dealing with failure) as those who are also smart but rely on their work ethic to help them succeed.

This was especially true in my career as both a competitive gymnast and gymnastics coach. More often than not, the gymnasts who were praised for their immense talent from an early age (like the “smart kids” group) were more likely to drop out of the sport or become extra lazy and whiney when it got “hard” than those who were known for their good work ethic (like the “praised for their effort” group). The gymnasts who had less talent (even if they were really good gymnasts) but a better work ethic were more able to successfully overcome adversity – such as injuries or poor scores – and ultimately step up to the challenges of the higher levels. I saw it in the beginner levels. I saw it in the higher levels. I saw it in the college ranks. And I saw it as a coach.

What do you think about this? Have you ever seen this play out in real life?

(This infographic was produced by OnlinePsychologyDegree.net)

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Get up and dance with your baby!

Have you ever found yourself wondering what the heck to do with a baby who can’t roll, can’t scoot, can’t sit up, or can’t crawl? Um, yeah, pretty sure we all have. Well, you’re in luck, because here’s an idea…

DANCE WITH YOUR BABY!

I don’t care if you feel silly or not, your baby will more than likely LOVE it and I bet it will put you in a pretty good mood, too. Find your favorite groove – be it Funky Town or Wheels on the Bus – and get to work as your baby’s favorite dance partner. My favorite place for baby-bopping tunes is Pandora…try stations such as “Raffi” or “Veggie Tales”.

Dancing with your baby is great because it:

  • gets baby off the floor and into your arms
  • allows baby to experience lots of fun movement and stimulation (such as bouncing up and down or rolling and flying in your arms) before being able to move independently
  • prepares baby for the big task of learning how to roll
  • exposes baby (and you!) to different kinds of music and rhythm

To dance with your baby, all you have to do is turn on that music, find a position that suits baby’s age and comfort, and start bopping around. Dance and sway and sing for 30 seconds or so and then…FREEZE!…for a few seconds to give baby’s body (actually the inner ear) a chance to process all that movement and sort of “reset” for the next round. Dancing with too consistent a rhythm and no freeze breaks can cause your little one to sort of “tune out” the movement and lull them into lala land. Since that’s not the goal of this activity, we want to break things up to keep baby alert and engaged!

Be sure to switch up positions when you dance with your baby so they can experience all different kinds of movement.

You can hold baby facing out.

Facing out

You can hold baby sideways.

Side hold

Or you can roll baby down and make him fly!

Flying baby

Make things really fun and dance with baby in front of a mirror or even during a play date with other dancing babies!

I hope you get a chance to dance with your baby every day and as you bounce and laugh and cuddle, just remember that this stage won’t last forever, so do your best to make the most of these sweet and silly times!

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