Diaper Rash Home Remedies

Mama OT: Diaper rash home remedies

Diaper rash is miserable. It’s a totally common irritation of the skin in the diaper region that can be caused by a number of factors such as a too-tight diaper that inhibits air flow, a soiled diaper left on too long, antibiotics being taken by baby or nursing mother (which is then passed to baby), too many acidic foods/drinks that irritate the skin on their way out, sensitive skin, etc.

Our 18-month-old recently experienced an unfortunate encounter with the worst diaper rash of his life and, after several days of treating with our go-to diaper cream, it became apparent it wouldn’t be going down without a fight. I decided to reached out to our community of Mama OT Facebook fans and asked people to share their best diaper rash home remedies.

Diaper Rash Home Remedies

You guys really delivered. What a thread of suggestions! And some even sent MamaOT private Facebook messages so you could go into more detail. Love it! Thanks to you all, our little guy is now rash-free and back to his silly old self.

So, you wanna know what people shared about how to cure bad diaper rash without using traditional diaper cream? I’ve listed them below, looked into why they work, and have even found a few twists to throw in there. Keep reading to the bottom to see all the great (and some totally unique) ideas. Be sure to like MamaOT on Facebook so you can participate in our community and, please, if you have any other suggested home remedies for diaper rash, leave a comment so we can learn from you!

Please remember this is NOT medical advice. These suggestions were provided by readers. Each individual is responsible for doing his or her own research before implementing any home treatment program. Keep an eye out for diaper-area yeast infections or other secondary infections. Follow common guidelines for home treatment and contact your pediatrician if you are at all concerned about your child’s diaper rash.

Diaper Rash Home Remedies:

» 2 Tbsp Baking Soda in the bath: Combats acidity.
» Plenty of time with a bare bum: Allows skin to breathe and eliminates moisture.
» Lanolin: Acts as skin/moisture barrier, has healing properties, can be applied to broken skin whereas diaper creams cannot.
» Coconut oil: Soothing properties, apparently can also be used to treat yeast because it kills the Candida yeast cell’s nucleus (can also be used for cradle cap and at least two dozen other things).
» Breast milk: Fights infection, soothes skin, can be used in nearly five dozen other ways as well. Watch out for yeast infections though.
» Culturelle: A probiotic that basically neutralizes the gut, combats acidity.
» Oil (olive, grapeseed, etc.): Creates protective barrier, soothes skin.
» Cornstarch: Absorbs moisture. Can mix with petroleum jelly to create paste to block out moisture. However, recent knowledge discourages the use of cornstarch on diaper rash because it can allow bacteria to grow. Look into it more before trying this one.
» Oatmeal in a nylon stocking in a bath: Put it in the bath like a teabag, soothes irritated skin.
» Regular flour (not enriched): Sprinkle it on the rash, combats acidity. Use browned flour to really knock it out.
» Motherlove diaper ointment: Contains olive oil and beeswax, safe for cloth diapers, also good for nursing moms.
» Boudreaux’s Butt Paste: Unique skin protectant formula.
» CJ’s BUTTer: Soothes skin, can also be used for eczema, rug burns, healing of circumcision, and more.
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Use Fresh Food Feeders to Introduce Solid Foods to Baby

If you care for a baby who is relatively new to solids or is teething, then these these mesh fresh food feeders are for you!

Mesh fresh food feeder

I love them because:

  • You can introduce baby to new flavors, with a significantly reduced risk of choking. Some great foods to start with are soft foods like bananas, avocado, (clean right away so banana/avocado residue doesn’t dry and stick), cooked peas, cooked peaches, cooked sweet potatoes, cooked carrots, or cooked skinless apples. Then as baby’s jaw gets stronger, you can try foods like cooked chicken or raw skinless apples or pears. What a fun way to explore new flavors! 
  • The handle is easy for baby to hold while he chomps away.
  • The feeder snaps open in the center to allow easy access for inserting or removing food, but not in a manner that would allow baby to open it.
  • It provides opportunities for babies to explore sensory input all around the mouth, rather than just the front of the mouth like most teething toys. This is so important for oral development!
  • It can teach babies to move their tongue side-to-side (lateralization) as the feeder moves from one side of the mouth to the other while they chomp with their whole jaw. You may even be able to see that little tongue bending to the side that the feeder is on (so if the feeder is on the left side of the mouth, the tongue will move to the left, toward the stimulus).
  • It is an especially great resource if you have a baby who is constantly seeking things to put in his mouth more than your average baby (like mine was!).
  • It is one of many useful tools you can use to relieve teething pain…just add something cold or chewy in there such as frozen breast milk, frozen peas, watermelon, skinless apple, piece of bagel, etc. (You can give them a cold, wet washcloth for chomping if you don’t want to constantly give them food to gnaw on while they’re teething.)
  • You can use a pacifier clip to attach it to baby’s shirt or bib so it doesn’t fall on the floor if he drops or throws it.
  • You can use it to introduce foods to toddlers who are picky eaters, so they can try the flavor without having to deal with the texture or actually touch the food.
  • It is BPA free and dishwasher safe (check the details on your specific product just to be sure).

Mesh fresh food feeder

A few precautions or things to consider:

  • Always supervise baby while using the fresh food feeder.
  • The mesh allows juice to drip out (mostly into baby’s mouth), so be prepared for a small mess depending on what food you put in there.
  • Keep baby seated just like you would during regular feedings and don’t let him walk around while using it.
  • Be sure the snap closure is secure before giving to baby.
  • Wash as soon as possible after using, since some foods tend to dry or stick on the inside. FYI- The riper the banana in the feeder, the easier to clean.
  • Discard feeder if you notice any tearing and snagging in the mesh (that’s never happened to us, but it could…).
  • Don’t place any foods in the fresh food feeder that baby could potentially develop an allergy to before he is ready (such as strawberries or peanut butter before 12 months of age, check with your pediatrician for guidelines related to infants and food allergies).
  • If baby isn’t interested in the feeder, then he’s probably not ready for it. Wait a few weeks and try again later.
  • Always read the directions that come with the product before using.

These mesh fresh food bags can be purchased in most baby/toddler feeding aisles (such as your local grocery store, drug store, Target, Wal-Mart, Babies R Us, etc.), or you can find them online here.

Enjoy those food adventures, and let me know what you think of this product or what others ways you like to use it!

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25 Tips for Preventing Injury in Infant Caregivers

25 tips for preventing injury in infant caregivers. Written by a mom who is also an occupational therapist.

Caring for a baby is tough. Really tough. It takes a huge physical toll on the body. And sleep deprivation makes the body even more prone to injury and physical break down. The fact is, preventing injury is a challenge.

If you’re in the trenches of baby care, you know the last thing you need is an injury that could have been avoided through the use of proper ergonomics and body mechanics while caring for the little munchkin.

Since occupational therapists can help people by teaching them principles of ergonomics and energy conservation in order to better perform their daily occupations (you know, all that stuff about using good body position and “lifting from the legs, not the back”?), I thought it might be helpful to address this commonly problematic yet rarely recognized topic as it relates to baby care.

So whether you are a parent, babysitter, nanny, family member, childcare worker, or someone else who cares for babies, we want you to stay healthy! Here are 25 of my top tips (many learned from from experience!) for preventing injury in those who care for infants:

1. Lift from the legs, not the back. Car seat transfers, play time on the floor, diaper changes. Everything. Use your legs. Especially if you’ve recently given birth. They are your back’s best friend.

2. Bend your knees when stooping over to place baby on a lower surface (crib, floor, changing table, etc.). This naturally shifts your weight backward a bit and takes some strain off your back.

3. Use a raised surface for changing baby rather than using the floor. Again, it’s all about saving your back. And many Pack n’ Plays now have changing tables attached to them for your convenience. The safest option is to use something with a safety buckle rather than changing baby on top of a couch or dresser, where he could potentially roll off.

4. Keep your wrists in neutral position when holding baby, rather than using extreme flexion. Notice the way my wrist is bent in the cover photo? Big no no. Over time, those wrists will pay…for some pain pills…or maybe even a splint.

5. Keep your thumb tucked close to your hand when holding baby. This minimizes strain on two major muscles and tendons that control movement of the thumb. Again, notice the terrible thumb position in the cover photo above. Don’t do that. Ever heard of the painful condition called “Mommy Thumb”? I’m sure you have if you’ve ever developed it. It officially goes by a more scientific name (De Quervain Syndrome) and frequently occurs in new moms/caregivers (though females are more likely to develop it simply based on anatomy of their thumb/wrist). It’s basically an overuse injury caused by poor ergonomics that is often treated with a splint, occupational or physical therapy, anti-inflammatory medication and, in severe cases, a cortico-steroid injection or surgery. But let’s avoid all that. Just keep your thumb close to your hand when you carry baby, okay?

6. Keep your back straight when holding baby up to your shoulder, rather than arching back. Less arch = less strain.

7. Keep your hips and body in a straight line when holding baby on your hip, rather than sticking one hip out to the side. Are you catching on that the cover photo pretty much shows you everything NOT to do when holding baby? The more symmetrically you can stand, the better for your body.

8. Carry baby with two hands in a tucked, face out position to minimize strain on your back and arms. It’s amazing how much pressure this takes off your own body. Plus it’s good for baby, too, as it gets her body ready for rolling!

9. Keep heavy items close to your body when carrying them. Car seats, strollers, diaper bags and, oh yeah, the baby! All are heavy, and the farther away they move from your body, the more strain it puts on your back and your joints.

10. Only take what you need when leaving the house. This is a tough one. We want to get everything out to the car in one trip. DON’T DO IT. Your body will thank you. The less weight you carry in one shot, the less likely you are to hold items in an awkward, injury-prone position, and the less likely you are to drop the baby. Kind of important.

11. Take breaks when carrying heavy items. Again, super tough. I get it. You want to get all the groceries in the house or the whole box of toys across the room in one trip. YOU DON’T HAVE TO BE A SUPERHERO! Put it down for a second. Take a break. No need to pull a muscle here. And if you’ve had a C-section and are on lifting restrictions for the first 6+ weeks…FOLLOW THEM! Period.

12. Use a hands-free baby carrier that provides symmetrical support and allows baby to sit above the level of your hips. The keys here are symmetrical support and above the level of your hips. Both are important for preventing injury to your hips and back. Some goods ones that meet this criteria (and are also good for baby) are Moby Wrap, Baby K’tan Carrier, and Ergo Baby Carrier.

13. Use good biomechanics when placing baby in your hands-free baby carrier. Yes, baby carriers are awkward when you first use them. Extra fabric is hanging off your front, you can’t see what you’re doing, and baby is flailing and practically sideways once you try to get him in. So have the carrier strapped on and ready to go, sit down while placing baby in the carrier, keep baby close to your body, sit while placing baby inside, try standing with one leg propped up on a higher surface such as bench or floor of car in order to situate baby, and maybe even insert baby while standing in front of a mirror so you can see what the heck is going on. Keep yourself safe. And don’t drop your baby.

14. Adjust height of handlebar on stroller so it’s at a comfortable level, around the height of your belly button. If the stroller handle is around the height of your belly button, that should put your arms just high enough to push forward without having to hike up your shoulders and overuse the muscles in your neck and upper back.

15. Push stroller with elbows relaxed (not stiff and extended) and wrists in fairly neutral position with thumbs wrapped around handle(s). Wrapping your thumbs around the handles naturally places your wrists in a more neutral position. This makes you less likely to push with the heel of your hand which, with repetition over time, could contribute to painful nerve compression and even the development of carpal tunnel syndrome. And all you wanted was to get out of the house and walk with your baby!

16. Use a nursing support pillow when breastfeeding or bottle feeding baby to minimize strain on back, shoulders, and wrists. Babies eat ALL. THE. TIME. Especially if they’re nursing (like, 45 minutes each feeding, every 3 or so hours). So save your joints and prop yourself. Two good ones are the popular Boppy Pillow and the not-as-well-known-but-very-good My Breast Friend Pillow (terrible name, great product, especially if you’ve had a C-section).

17. Delegate tasks to other family members, including children! Don’t be a supermom (or dad, or whatever you are). Let others help with carrying groceries, lugging the diaper bag, pushing the stroller, or carrying the baby. Conserve your energy and save your joints.

18. Be mindful of how you get baby into and out of the crib. You will face unique challenges depending on your height. But whether you are short or tall, keep baby close to you when placing in the crib, set him down in a side rolling motion (babies are stronger in this position so it’s easier for you), and pick him up in a similar side rolling position. And as an added bonus, this side rolling business is GREAT for preparing babies’ bodies to roll!

19. Minimize kneeling on the floor to change baby. This becomes especially more difficult as baby reaches birthday number one. But avoid it if you can, it’s hard on your back and your knees, even if you have no history of pain.

20. Wrap your arm around baby when holding to the side on your hip, rather than holding with arm under bottom and flexing wrist up. As always, let’s minimize strain on our joints, shall we?

21. Lick your palm and fingers before holding baby on your hip. Seriously. Do it. Much like licking your finger to turn a page in a book, this makes your hands a little more grippy and, let’s be honest, you’ve totally done grosser things for the sake of your baby. Yes, you have.

22. Switch sides you carry the baby on to give the other side a break. This one’s hard. We all naturally tend to carry on the right or left. But try to even things out. Your back, hips, and neck will thank you. Plus it’s also good for helping baby’s neck muscles develop evenly as she looks to both the left or right sides depending on which side you’re holding her.

23. Use a stool to obtain out-of-reach items rather than straining to reach up or standing on the counter. Don’t hurt your back or shoulders. Don’t fall off the counter. And ask for help if you need it.

24. Limit the amount of time you spend sitting on the floor with your back unsupported. It’s easy to just sit on the floor, legs criss-crossed, as you feed the baby, chat with friends, play with baby on the floor, or watch TV. Do your very best to sit in a supportive chair that allows your feet to rest flat on the floor. Or at least lean up against a couch or wall so your back doesn’t wear out. No need to walk like a granny after you’ve been sitting on the floor without any back support.

25. Rest when you can. I know. Yeah, right! But the body repairs itself during rest. Though “rest” can mean taking a nap (which I know is virtually impossible for most of us), it can also mean having some quiet time during the day or conserving energy simply by the way your hold or tend to the baby.

Please take care of yourself! I hope these tips will help keep you healthy and prevent injury as you care for the sweet, growing baby in your life.

*Some links in this post are affiliate links. This means if you click and wind up buying something through that link, you’ll not only get a great product, you’ll also help this mama pay the bills!

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4 ways to get babies moving

Babies need to move just like grown-ups do. The only problem is, they can’t. Sure, newborns can wiggle. And, yeah, pre-crawlers can roll. But it’s not the same as big time movement through space.

Did you know that a baby’s movement sense (called the vestibular system) lives in the inner ear and is developed by the end of the FIRST trimester of pregnancy? So before mama has even said good-bye to morning sickness, baby has said hello to the sense of movement. So cool!

That being said, babies are primed for movement the moment they are born! Ever noticed how happy and/or calm babies often become when they are carried, bounced, or swung? And the more comfortable they can become with being moved through various positions and directions in space at a young age, the more likely they will be to “integrate” those movement experiences in the brain so they can apply that information to later sensory and motor development.

So how do you help babies move before they are able to move and crawl on their own? Here are four ideas:

4 ways to get babies moving1) Wear your baby. Often touted for its ability to promote bonding with parents and free up a grown-up’s hands, wearing your baby in a sling or baby carrier also provides baby with lots of opportunity to experience the natural movement and rhythm of everyday life: walking, sitting, stopping, etc. Some baby carriers that are okay for baby’s body include over-the-shoulder slings, Moby Wrap, K’tan Baby Carrier, and Ergo Baby Carrier.

4 ways to get babies moving2) Play with your baby on an exercise ball. Pre-crawlers are fully capable of enjoying movement provided on an exercise ball! Not sure what I’m talking about? Exercise balls are a great way to introduce tummy time, especially for the baby who despises it (find out how by clicking here), and they are also a fun way to give baby the chance to bounce, rock, and roll back and forth. Not sure how to play with baby on an exercise ball? No worries, check out my post, “How to Play with Your Baby on an Exercise Ball“, and be sure to watch the video demonstration!

3) Dance with your baby. Turn on some music or simply hold your baby and waltz or spin around your house. Try holding baby in different positions such as airplane, cuddle out, or side lying (pictured below). Bounce, move, and spin while holding your baby and then FREEZE! every 30 seconds or so to give baby’s vestibular system and brain and chance to process all that movement and then “reset” in order to get ready for the next set of dance moves. Dancing with baby is actually one of my top 10 tips to help baby learn to roll! Check out all 10 tips for helping babies learn to roll by clicking here.
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4 ways to get babies moving4. Let your baby bounce himself.
As a pediatric OT, I tend to shy away from recommending baby equipment such as swings, saucers, and jumpers because they can impede babies’ development by restricting their movement opportunities or placing their joints in compromising positions. However, I tend to be okay making exceptions when it comes to baby bouncers such as the one pictured to the right. The reasons I’m okay with them are 1) baby is the one who initiates the movement (as opposed to a mechanical swing) and, thus, is able to control and “integrate” the movement experience, and 2) these bouncers don’t necessarily place baby in a compromising position. Try not to let baby spend more than about 10 minutes at time in these bouncers, and check baby’s head to make sure a flat spot isn’t forming on either side from spending too much time with the head turned one direction while bouncing. If you notice a flat spot, mention it to the pediatrician at the next visit and be sure to encourage baby to spend time with his head turned both directions when in the bouncer and when spending time on his back. When used appropriately, baby bouncers such as these can be a great way to give those active babies (and you know who they are!) a chance to move their little bodies as they kick, bounce, and coo in delight!

Any other suggestions for ways to get babies moving?

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Reusable Baby Food Pouches: Squishy Snak Paks! [Product Review]

baby food pouchesI love baby food pouches! They are practical, healthy, and easy-to-use. I first discovered them when my son was eight or nine months old, and it made picnics in the park and coffee dates with Mommy so much easier…and less messy! Not only that, baby food pouches also taught him how to drink from a straw (he never mastered the bottle or sippy cup, so that was a huge accomplishment). Like I said, I love baby food pouches. You can read my review of them here for more info and ideas on how to use baby food pouches to promote the development of baby’s feeding/oral motor skills.

The bummer about baby food pouches though is that, at $1-$2 per pouch depending on where you get them, they can get expensive over time (although WIC does cover the ones that are 100% fruits and veggies, which is most of them).

So you can imagine my excitement when I received an email from Michelle at Squishy Snak Paks, letting me know she has created REUSABLE baby food pouches!! Michelle — a stay-at-home-mom to four little ones (the two youngest being twin boys) and self-proclaimed “Mompreneur” — created this product to allow her toddling twins to be able to enjoy her homemade purees while still being able to be independent. She graciously agreed to send me a free two-pack so I could try them out and let you, dear readers, know what I thought.

First, the specs. Squishy Snak Paks:

  • baby food pouchesare made of non-toxic plastic and are free of BPA and Phthalates.
  • are durable and safe for freezing.
  • are dishwasher safe (place opened end on a prong on the top rack and put the cap in the silverware basket).
  • hold up to 1/2 cup puree.
  • come with a heavy duty zip seal (Michelle has had no reports of Squishy Snak Paks bursting open while being used or transported in, say, a diaper bag).
  • baby food pouchesfit perfectly with baby food dispensing spoons, which are little spoon tips that screw onto baby food pouches so you can have portable puree-on-a-spoon (read my post about them here). You have to make sure there are no lumps in the puree, though, so that it will dispense through the little hole in the spoon without clogging.

Next, ideas for use. You could use Squishy Snak Paks with your infant (at least 6 months old/able to eat Stage 1 puree) or toddler by:

  • filling with store bought puree (Stage 1 or 2), yogurt, applesauce, etc. for increased convenience when eating with your little one outside the home.
  • filling with homemade smoothie if baby is not ready to drink from an open cup.
  • baby food pouchesfilling with homemade puree that is just straight-up fruits and veggies (recipe listed below!) in an effort to help your little one get more fruits and veggies without all the flavor they dislike. Hello, blueberries, apples, and broccoli! Have you seen those crazy combinations in the store?. You could even throw some quinoa or oats into that blender/food processor to give it some protein/added fiber. Just be sure the freshly-made puree gets consumed within the hour or goes in the fridge in a sealed container and is consumed within 24 hours. This may be a REALLY good option for those of you with kids who are picky eaters. You could send them to daycare or Grandma’s house with this and know they’ll still get fruits and veggies.
  • making a large batch of puree and freezing portions in an ice cube tray, much like you can do with regular homemade baby food or expressed breast milk. When you are ready to use, simply place two frozen cubes in the Squishy Snak Pak, set it in a bowl of warm water to defrost, or just put it in your diaper bag and go. This is definitely the most efficient and cost-effective way to do it!

Michelle shares three quick and tasty recipes on the Squishy Snak Pak website (Apple & Pear with Cinnamon, Avocado & Banana, Blueberry & Banana), but I was excited to experiment with my own basic recipe.

Mama OT’s Pear Spinach Puree for Squishy Snak Pak

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All I did was toss a pear, a handful of spinach leaves, and a tiny bit of water into the food processor to help keep it smooth. I pulsed it for several seconds until it was smooth enough to dispense (much like a Stage 2 puree) and then went to work scooping it out. I scooped with a spatula from the food processor to a baby-sized bowl, then to the Snak Pak one spoonful at a time until the bag was full.This recipe made about one and a half bags full, and my 15-month-old LOVED it!

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I knew he liked it because he kept signing for “more”!

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I was brave enough to try some and, I’ll admit, it was good. Tasted like pear applesauce and I couldn’t even taste the spinach or feel its texture. Would definitely recommend this combo!

Three critiques of Squishy Snak Paks: 

  1.  I wish there was a cleaner or more efficient way to get homemade puree from the blender/food processor to the bag. Not sure if a funnel would make things easier or trickier at this point.
  2. I wish they stood up like the store bought ones when they are filled. This is a minor critique, but I like being able stand them up when I put them in the fridge as opposed to laying them on their sides. Like I said, a minor issue.
  3. The Snak Pak does include a “fill line” so you know how much puree to put in there. However, my husband and I both missed it the first time because it is pretty faint and kinda blends in with the pattern on the bag. I also found that my bag overflowed a little even though I respected the fill line. Maybe it depends on how thick your puree is. So just be careful when filling and zipping your Snak Pak.

Would I recommend this product?

  • YES! Whether you are savvy enough to make your own puree, or you throw in something that’s store bought, I think Squishy Snak Paks could be a great addition to any family who wants their baby or young toddler to be able to eat healthfully while minimizing mess and maximizing portability. You can add on a dispensing spoon for the baby who can’t yet suck from the spout, you can use a Snak Pak to teach your baby or toddler to drink from a straw without spending a fortune on individual baby food pouches, and you can freeze large batches of puree in order to increase both the variety and volume available to you.

You can order Squishy Snak Paks by visiting Michelle’s website, http://squishysnakpak.com. They come two-at-a-time and would be a great gift for stocking stuffers, baby shower gifts, or even baby birthday gifts. Stop by and check them out!

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Switch Out Your Toys {One Thing Thursday}

Welcome to One Thing Thursday, where I share one thing you can do to boost your child’s development.

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Do you ever look at your child’s toy box and think, “We really need some new toys”?

Yep, been there.

I know it’s tempting to put all the toys out there and give them lots of things to play with. But what’s the problem? The toys get old. Your child gets bored with them. You get bored with them. And from a  learning standpoint, your child’s brain kinda stops being challenged after engaging with the same toys over and over again. Practice is good, but too much of the same means their brain doesn’t have to create new “motor plans” in order to figure out how to engage with a new or unfamiliar toy.

So try this one thing: Divide your child’s toys into two or three groups and rotate them every week or two. This will keep your child’s brain stimulated and it will keep you from feeling like you need to go to the toy store and load up on new stuff for your little one.

While there are certainly times when new toys are necessary (like when they are ready to move from infant to toddler toys, or they have graduated to preschool toys), many of your child’s toys can last for longer than you think. And you know what happens when you bring out that box of toys that you’ve been hiding for the past few weeks or months? It’s like Christmas…for you and for them!

So try picking out some toys for the week, and switch things up on a regular basis. You might find that you get more creative with what you offer as “toys” (like bowls, mixing spoons, strainers, and other things around the house). It will be good for both you and your child!

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8 ways to use a baby play table

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Baby play tables are a great invention. As far as I can tell, they came onto the scene fairly recently (relatively speaking), and I have been amazed at how versatile they are. I’ve used them with infants in early intervention therapy, and they’ve also come in handy for promoting my own son’s development during his first year of life. They have all sorts of cause/effect buttons that sing and light up while introducing baby to songs, shapes, spatial concepts (open/close, up/down), ABCs, and 123s. Many of these play tables (including the one pictured above) now come with English/Spanish modes so you have the option of exposing your baby to more than one language at an early age.

Unless someone purchases one for you, don’t bother forking over forty bucks for a brand new baby play table. You should be able to easily find a gently used one on Craigslist or at a second hand store for twenty dollars or less. Just make sure it has removable legs so you can use it in a variety of ways throughout baby’s first year.

Here are eight ways you can use a baby play table:

1. Remove all legs and tilt against a couch, wall, or other stable surface so the play surface is nearly vertical.

Developmental stage: Newborn to rolling (approximately 0-4 months).

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Interact with baby and talk to him about the lights, music, and sounds. Help baby lay on his side so he can look at and reach for the play surface. It’s important to get baby on his side while engaging, rather than just laying on his back and reaching over to the side. This is because when baby lays on his side, he is able to engage in “midline play”, which means he is being oriented to where the middle of his body is. Babies are not born with a midline orientation, and it is through midline play that they begin to develop a sense of symmetry (a balance between the right and left sides). If baby will not stay put on his side due to lack of strength or control, simply roll up a receiving blanket and wedge it behind his back. This side-lying position is also helpful for babies who have low muscle tone and find it difficult to engage in midline play while laying on their backs (as they would while playing in a baby gym).

2. Remove all legs and place flat on the ground.
Developmental stage: Tummy time to independent sitting (approximately 2-6 months).

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This gives baby some incentive to push up during tummy time. It also gives baby something to play with while sitting up, even if she isn’t so sure about using her hands quite yet. Stay close by your baby on this one. It’s easy for the tummy time baby to suddenly drop her head and bonk her face, and it’s just as easy for the new sitter to quickly topple forward…also bonking her face. If your baby is not yet an independent sitter, that’s okay. Just support her trunk with your hands from behind while she sits and plays. The higher up you support her (closer to her armpits), the less she has to work. The lower down you support (closer to the hips), the more she has to work. Assist her accordingly.

3. Remove only two legs so the table tilts at a 45 degree angle.
Developmental stage: Pushing up and shifting weight during tummy time to pushing up onto all fours (approximately 4 to 8 months).

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This is more stable than suggestion number one and, thank goodness, because now baby can reach out and clobber those buttons! The more advanced tummy time baby will find this fun and, again, it gives him an opportunity to engage in midline play no matter where he is around the table. As a therapist, I like this stage because it gives baby an opportunity to practice shifting his weight from side to side while on his tummy. He must shift his weight to one arm while he reaches out with the other. This is an important skill to learn before he can ever think about crawling.  The more weight he can bear on one arm while he uses the other to play, the closer he is to crawling! This position also requires quite a bit of trunk and neck strength, which is important for — again — developing the muscles necessary for crawling. And, of course, this position is also fun with the baby who sits independently and is now able to engage more freely with his hands while sitting.

If your baby isn’t really comfortable on his tummy or doesn’t weight shift yet during tummy time, try putting him on his tummy on an exercise ball and slowly zooming him forward to the point where he can reach the play surface. You can help him practice shifting his weight by slowly tilting the ball to the left side (only, like, an inch or two, not a lot) while he reaches with his right. And then tilt it to the right while he reaches with his left. Not comfortable putting your baby on an exercise ball? Check out my post with video about how to play with your baby on an exercise ball. Sometimes a demonstration is all you need to ease your nerves.

4. Remove all legs and place flat on one couch cushion (or an object of similar height).
Developmental stage: Pre-crawling to crawling (approximately 6 to 9 months). 

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This is a great intro to assuming the hands-and-knees position because it’s easier to sustain a semi-upright quadruped position than it is a fully horizontal one. It takes some of the weight off the arms so baby can venture into a pre-crawling position without needing quite as much upper body and core strength. It also teaches baby about moving up and down through space, as opposed to only moving horizontally all the time (rolling, scooting, etc.).

5. Remove all legs and place flat on two couch cushions (or an object of similar height).
Developmental stage: Crawling to standing with support (approximately 8 to 10 months). 

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This just about mimics the height the play table will have when you put the legs back on, but it gives baby something to hold onto, lean against, and push against as he transitions to learning how to play in a kneeling and half-kneeling position. Translation: baby’s hand won’t slip off the bottom of the play table and he won’t hit his face on the hard plastic on his way down. We want to avoid injury where we can, right? This is also the perfect height and place for baby to start experimenting with pulling to a stand and remaining in an upright position for more than a few seconds at a time. We’re getting ready for cruising and walking!

6. Stand table up on all 4 legs and have baby use with table wedged into a corner.
Developmental stage: Standing with minimal support to cruising (approximately 9 to 12 months).

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You’d be surprised at how much a newly standing baby leans into a play table…and how easily the table can slide or tip with that much weight being put on them. Once my little one reached this stage, I always felt most comfortable if I just wedged the play table into a corner so it couldn’t slide or tip. Of course, a baby this age still needs constant supervision because, as you will soon find out, those chunky little legs are still getting used to supporting all that baby weight and they have a tendency to unexpectedly give out. So stay close to your baby, keep a hand on her, and make sure she’s safe while you engage her with play and talk to her about all the fun stuff going on. Also, don’t be surprised if your baby pulls to a stand, plays for a minute, and then begins to cry…it’s probably because she can’t figure out how to get down! Help her problem solve and, over the course of the next few days or weeks, she’ll soon become a pro at using the table to stand up and squat down.

7. Stand table up on all 4 legs and place in an area where baby can access all four sides independently.
Developmental stage: Standing with minimal support to cruising (approximately 9-12 months).

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As baby becomes more comfortable in a standing position, he won’t need to lean against the table so much, so you can get it out of the corner and into the middle of the room! He’ll start to experimenting with taking a step or two to the side, which is the beginning of the “cruising” phase. He’ll also start to become better at pulling to a stand and squatting down to the floor when he’s all done. Don’t be surprised if he starts to become a dare devil and tries to see if he can take both hands off the table. Or better yet, he may become so engrossed in his play time that he will “accidentally” take his hands off without even realizing it…and then quickly put them back on as soon as he realizes what he’s done!

8. Stand table up on all 4 legs and place near another surface so baby can reach over and “walk” to it.
Developmental stage: Cruising to early walking (approximately 10-12+ months).

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It may take a while before baby gets up the guts to let go of the table AND step away from it. But oh the look of joy on his face when he does! Create safe opportunities for him to transfer between supportive surfaces, whether it’s a couch, a soft chair, or the very best thing — you! This is the beginning of the walking stage and it — in my opinion — is the best stage of all. Soon your baby will be saying good riddance to that play table in exchange for other, more exciting things to explore. You know, really safe things, like glass coffee tables, fireplaces, toilets, and garbage cans.

Always be sure to supervise and interact with your baby while he or she engages with their baby play table. And have fun!

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Tips for addressing throwing behavior

Let’s be honest: isn’t it annoying when cute little babies or toddlers start throwing stuff? And you can’t even reason with them!

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Here are five reasons why babies or toddlers might exhibit throwing behaviors, and what you can do about it.

Reason #1: Developmental stage.
From about 9-12 months, it’s totally developmentally appropriate for babies to throw things in order to see what happens when they land. This is a normal part of their cognitive development. They are learning about cause and effect and are often fascinated by the sounds different objects make when they fall. However, 9-12 months is also about the time babies start to test limits, and they often do this by throwing food or utensils during feeding time.

What you can do about it:
Label and describe to your baby what’s happening when he or she tosses that baby spoon on the kitchen floor. Talk about the quality of the sound (loud, quiet, etc.). Describe the mess it made (gooey, sticky, oatmeal or spaghetti sauce all over the floor, etc.). Describe where it went (under the high chair, next to your chair, etc.). Explain what you’re going to do with the spoon now that it’s on the floor (rinse it off, get a new spoon because this one is dirty, etc.). Set limits if the throwing is becoming a problem (such as, “If you throw the spoon one more time, we’re going to be all done.”), and offer them other toys that are fun, noisy, and okay to throw instead (such as rattle balls). All of this will help them start to understand more about cause/effect, which is a huge pre-requisite for higher level problem solving skills needed in the toddler years.

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Reason #2: Seeking sensory input.
Some little ones who are past the 9-12 month cause/effect phase will still throw because they’re seeking a lot of “heavy” input into their joints and muscles (you know it when you see it). One way they can accomplish this is by throwing stuff. Blocks, toy trucks, dolls, you name it. If they can pick it up, they’ll throw it. Watch out…and duck.

What you can do about it:
Offer them a replacement item. Instead of chucking puzzle pieces or shoes, how about beanbags, balls, or stuffed animals? This will provide similar sensory input in a safer way. Direct their throwing by encouraging them to throw toward a target of some sort, such as into a laundry basket or cardboard box. You can easily make weighted stuffed animals for throwing by ripping the seam, inserting a reinforced bag of sand or rice, and then stitching back up. Not cool with them throwing things, period? Encourage them toward other activities that provide “heavy work” to the shoulder/elbow/wrist joints such as safely crawling up and down surfaces of various heights (steps, short slides, pillows, etc.), hanging on bars, pushing things around the house (heavy diaper box, laundry basket, etc.), or walking like a bear. Make a game out of it when you can so it’s both fun and functional.

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Reason #3: Communicating that they’re “all done”.
The most logical way for babies to get rid of something they’re finished with is to toss it, right? Makes sense. Most babies don’t begin handing items to adults in order to indicate they’re finished until about 18 months (but some can learn sooner with the strategies listed below).

What you can do about it:
A) Be physically present with the child and tune in to their cues that indicate they are all done before they get to the point of throwing.
Does their eating slow down? Do they start playing with their food? Do they start to drink more slowly out of their bottle or cup? Do they look around the room and show less interest in their toy just before they throw it? This requires you to be physically present with the child so you can intervene just before they begin their pitching practice. As you see them nearing their throwing threshold, you can either ask them or tell them that they’re all done (“Oh, are you all done?” or “You look like you’re all done.”). Then reach out your hand (or stop their hand from throwing), get the item from them, and thank them for it.

B) Teach them the baby sign for “all done”. It basically looks like they are shaking both of their hands at the same time (click here for video). This gives them a more functional and mature communication tool to be able to use in times like this. Teach it to any other caregivers as well so they can be aware of what the baby means when they sign it, rather than just thinking baby is being funny and then they miss the cue and all of a sudden baby starts throwing stuff.

Here’s a sample:
Baby: Slows down eating at end of meal, starts to play with spoon in high chair and motions to throw it
Mom: Stops baby’s hand. “Oh, are you all done?” (Models baby sign for “all done” while saying it)
Baby: Signs “all done”
Mom: “Okay, give the spoon to Mommy.”
Baby: Slightly moves hand toward Mom
Mom: Takes spoon and says, “Thank you! All done.”

You can do this with spoons, food, toys, and more. If you practice this interaction on a regular basis, your little one will start to understand the routine (remember cause/effect from earlier?) and should begin to initiate the sign or words for “all done” without needing to be prompted by an adult.

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Reason #4: Communicating that they’re frustrated.
This can be especially true when they’re playing with their toys. Baby’s first year is typically littered with toys that are pretty straight forward — you shake it, it makes noise; you push it, it lights up. But toys for the late baby/early toddler years are not quite so simple. Shape sorter, blocks, and basic puzzles are great for their development…not so good for their frustration, though. The common response? Throw it.

What you can do about it:
A) Again, be physically present with the child and tune in to learn what their pre-throwing cues are. How long do they struggle with a toy before they toss it? One attempt? Several attempts? Don’t jump in right away. Let them struggle and problem solve. Give them a chance to try. But don’t let them get to the point of throwing. Once they are close to that threshold, then you can jump in and either ask them if they need help or tell them that they do (“Oh, do you need help?” or “It looks like you need help.”). Then help them figure out whatever it is they’re trying to do and give them a chance to contribute to the problem solving process, such as letting them do the final push into the shape sorter or the final slide over of the puzzle piece to fit it in the slot.

B) Teach them the baby sign for “help”. Most kids I know must be taught to ask for help, and it comes back to giving them the appropriate, mature communication tools to be able to do so. To do the baby sign for “help”, simply flip one palm up toward the ceiling, place your other hand on top of it in a thumbs-up position, and raise both hands up a few inches. (Click here for video.) Younger kiddos may do any variation of this because it’s a little tricky, so you just want to focus on establishing a consistent, functional gesture to indicate that they need help.

Here’s a sample:
Baby: Starts to fuss while playing with toy and appears to be frustrated
Dad: “Do you need help?” (Models baby sign for “help” while saying it)
Baby: Establishes eye contact with Dad. Doesn’t yet know how to sign “help”, so Dad takes babies hands and helps her do it.
Dad: “Okay, Daddy helps.” Assists baby with toy/activity, allows her to finish the last step, and then cheers.

Again, teach this sign to all other caregivers so they can be on the same page and will be able to read the child’s cue prior to extreme frustration and throwing. Baby will develop an understanding of this routine over time and you should see a decrease in throwing behavior as a result. I’ve seen a lot of little ones stop throwing things simply because someone took the time to teach them how to ask for help.

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Reason #5: Seeking attention.
Babies learn in the first several months of life that their actions can influence the behavior of others. This is such a basic yet vitally important social skill. Additionally, kids often develop the desire to become the center of attention around 12-18 months of age. Some do it by being silly or performing a new skill. Others do it by throwing. As it turns out, this age often happens to coincide with the arrival of a new sibling or some sort of life change like a family move or transition to daycare or school. It’s not uncommon for kids’ behavior to deteriorate for a little while with big changes like these, particularly a new sibling. So now you’ve got a double whammy. There, I warned you.

What you can do about it:
A) Ignore the throwing behavior, but only as long as it’s safe to do so. If the child gets attention (whether positive or negative) when they throw, or they like the way you respond when they throw (a funny face, funny noise, etc.), they will keep doing it. So ignore it. I know, this is hard. But it’s often effective. Of course, if their throwing risks injury to a person or property, then you can’t just ignore it. That’s where you have to step in and be the parent (or other authority), and use your best judgment about the situation.

B) Provide plenty of positive attention when they are doing things you consider to be “good”. Maybe they are playing appropriately with their toys or doing a good job of helping clean up. Be sure to tell them you notice that! If they are old enough to understand “token systems”, consider involving them in a star chart or marble jar so you can catch them being good and give them a tangible way of understanding when they have done something good. Then they can work toward some sort of reward that you choose or at least that you agree with (a certain movie, play date with a friend, etc.). If they feel they are receiving adequate attention from you because of the positive things they are doing and being reinforced for, then the throwing-as-a-means-of-getting-attention should cease.

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As with most things in real life, there is rarely one “right” answer to addressing throwing behavior because the root causes of the behavior are often intermingled. For example, the child may be all done with their food or toy, but they are also seeking sensory input and attention. This means you’ll have to use your best judgment in order to problem solve how to best address their throwing behavior. If the behavior persists despite your very best efforts or seems extremely defiant, go ahead and mention it to their pediatrician at the next visit. He or she may be able to provide you with some helpful insights.

I hope you can use these suggestions as tools in your toolbox as you endeavor to train up your own (or someone else’s) child to the best of your ability!

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Let Them Put a Triangle in a Round Hole {One Thing Thursday}

Welcome to One Thing Thursday, where we share one thing you can do to boost your child’s development.

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One Thing Thursday is back, and here’s the deal: I’m not gonna sugar coat this one. Here we go.

Dear Parents,

If you remember nothing else this week (or this month…or year…you get the point), please remember this ONE THING:

Don’t be afraid to let your child make mistakes. 

In fact, please allow them to make mistakes. Give them enough space so they have the option of making mistakes. Especially as young toddlers.

They NEED to learn from their mistakes. They NEED to learn that “if at first you don’t succeed, try, try again” is actually a real thing. They NEED to learn that if they mess up the first time, they can try again next time. They NEED to learn how to persist in a task even if they don’t succeed the first, or the second, or the third time.  They NEED to learn that if they can’t do something, they can ask for help rather than throwing a tantrum, having someone swoop in to do it for them, or simply giving up.

I have seen far too many little ones who, after being given the chance to engage in trial and error without an adult jumping in at the first sign of difficulty, have made tremendous strides in their cognitive and physical abilities. You should see the way these kiddos light up when they discover they can do something themselves. Could be learning to put on a shirt. Could be figuring out a shape sorter. Could be learning to cut with scissors.

Yes, every child is different and has varying capabilities. But the message is the same: give them a chance to try it by themselves. 

So the next time you see your child trying to put a triangle in a round hole (or engaging in some metaphorical equivalent) and you have the urge to jump in and immediately do it for them, hold your horses. Give them a second. Or two. Let them try to put the triangle in the round hole. Encourage them. Point them in the right direction. Give them a chance to look up to you and ask for help. Guide them to the right solution. And then if they need you to ultimately finish it for them, go right ahead. But please don’t deprive them of the process of problem solving and the rich learning experience that only trial and error can bring.

Let them put the triangle in the round hole.

And then see what happens.

I will thank you for it when they are older.

Respectfully yours,

Mama OT

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